Being a mom can be confusing. I am always torn between what I would like to be — “a Pinterest Mom” — and what I actually have time for. I usually find myself at the store just a few days before the holidays trying to come up with something thoughtful for my kids. This year, I am thinking ahead and looking for some simple ways to pull off quality experiences in less time.
Here are a few simple ideas I have for a family-centered Valentine celebration:
Plan ahead:
Send out invitations a few days before to invite your kids to a special “candlelit Valentine’s dinner.” Sending out an invite will bring more excitement. Tell them the dress code for the night is fancy!
Decor:
Keep it simple and use easy, throw-away decor. Set the table ahead of time, and place a note at each person’s seat telling them why you love them. Kids may enjoy helping you prepare by cutting out paper hearts to create a “house full of love” by scattering them around the house. Don’t forget the candles to create a special atmosphere.
Food:
For me, food can quickly make things more complicated and stressful, but maybe you love to cook and that is the easy part for you. I usually end up getting a heart-shaped take-and-bake pizza from a local pizza place; do what works for you. My kids love sparkling cider, so I will pick up plastic champagne glasses to serve that in. If you’re feeling ambitious, you could serve chocolate fondue for dessert.
Games:
This is another area where you can easily do more or less. Here are some ideas: Have a conversation heart tower-building contest where you see who can build the tallest tower; play Cupid with straws and Q-tips by blowing Q-tips through straws at each other; or play Valentine Bingo with simple, fun and free printables available online. My kids also love to play hot and cold; take turns hiding a heart and looking for it.
I hope these suggestions spark ideas that will help you make lasting memories with the ones you love most.
